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I have spent over countless hours around the most elite people you could find. People who are least likely to succeed, people who didn’t have anyone that believed in them. Some people who got caught up in the wrong time at the wrong place. Surprisingly…we have conquered our fears and the people who have counted us out, we have proved them all wrong.

Here is to all the comeback kids out there.

Over the past 365 days, these are the 7 things I’ve learned from studying the best humans and what you can do to better your current situation right now. Change your entire life and become a new person.

SOLUTION BASED MOTIVATION

Surveys indicate that 50–60% of New Year’s resolutions involve health-related goals such as losing weight. Today you are not waiting on New Years, you’re becoming the person you’ve been dying to become. Here is what we’re going to focus on:

1. Ensure Your Intentions Are Right

• What It Means: Before starting any task or setting a goal, reflect on why you’re doing it. Are you motivated by personal growth, helping others, or something positive? Or are you driven by ego, competition, or external pressures? Are you doing it because other people are watching and you want to be in the spotlight?

• How to Apply: Align your actions with your values. Ask yourself, “Am I doing this for the right reasons?” Having the right intentions will keep you focused and grounded. It’s also what God wants for you.

2. Work Hard to Make You and Your Family Proud

• What It Means: Your efforts should reflect a sense of purpose and responsibility, not only to yourself but also to those who care about and support you. It’s about building a legacy and creating a sense of fulfillment for yourself and your loved ones. You can either be average or be the example, you chose.

• How to Apply: Commit to giving your best in everything you do. Think about how your achievements can positively impact both your personal life and the lives of those around you. Get a pen and paper write down all your thoughts down on what you will do to make your family proud.

BTW…BAD DAYS — there’s no such thing.

3. Never Compare Your Progress to Others (This Is Your Own Journey)

• What It Means: Everyone has a unique path in life, with different starting points, challenges, and goals. Comparing yourself to others can lead to frustration, self-doubt, or unnecessary competition. We all come from cultural backgrounds and different parts of the world. Your experiences will all be different.

• How to Apply: Focus on your personal growth. Celebrate your milestones, no matter how small. Use others’ success as inspiration, not as a measure of your own worth. Find a mentor, and think what are a few different ways I can apply how they have became successful into your own life.

4. Remove Any Distractions That Don’t Help You Reach Your Goal

• What It Means: Distractions come in many forms — social media, toxic relationships, procrastination, or even overcommitting. These can derail your progress and sap your energy. Negative talk aroud you.

• How to Apply: Identify what’s preventing you from achieving your goals. Set boundaries, create a productive environment, and prioritize tasks that align with your objectives.

HOUSEHOLD RULES:

• Trust in God.

• Stay Grateful.

• Lead Others.

• Encourage When Others Win.

• Try New Things.

• Learn Something New Everyday.

• No Bad Mouthing Others.

• No Negative Talk.

• No Complaining.

• No Victim “Poor Me” Mentality.

• No Ego.

5. Don’t Be Approval Addicted

• What It Means: Seeking validation from others can hold you back. Constantly needing approval can lead to decision-making based on others’ opinions rather than your true desires. Be yourself and be original. Have the linchpin approach: Linchpins are creative and stand out, while drones complete mindless work

• How to Apply: Trust your instincts and stay confident in your choices. Learn to validate yourself by recognizing your own efforts and achievements, instead of relying on external praise.

6. Don’t Tell Anyone What You’re Doing Until It’s Done

• What It Means: Sharing plans too early can invite unnecessary opinions, doubts, or distractions that may derail your focus or motivation. Keeping your goals private allows you to work without external pressures.

• How to Apply: Keep your progress and ambitions to yourself until you’ve reached significant milestones or completed the task. Let your results speak for themselves.
  

7. Make Your Own Decisions and Be a Solution Maker

• What It Means: Empower yourself to take charge of your life by making your own decisions and actively seeking solutions to problems. Don’t wait for others to guide or fix things for you.

• How to Apply: Weigh your options, trust your instincts, and take ownership of your choices. When faced with challenges, shift your focus to finding actionable solutions and implement them confidently.

CONTRIBUTIONS.

Thank you to everyone who has contributed to my pregnant mind of knowledge. Special thanks to The Elliott Group, and my dear running mate Tyler Glennon, you have changed my life forever; you are truly dependable.

God is real.

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About me:

I’m a senior leader at The Elliott Group with over 12 years of client service experience and have held a substantial leadership roles in the automotive industry. I’m also an accredited coach, a writer, speaker, and a triathlon finisher. To contact me for engagements you can reach me at [email protected].